Now, she opts to disengage, adding, “I just don’t care. I don’t want to see it.”

Because the 32-year-old—who is also mom to sons Isaac, 15,  Lincoln, 11, Lux, 7, and Creed, 4, from previous relationships—has come to an important realization.

“Everyone has skeletons, everyone has things that they don’t want the public to know, everyone is messing up sometimes,” she explained. “And so I just humanize everyone. And if people don’t want to humanize me, I don’t want any part in it, because you clearly see from a completely different lens than I do.”

The New York Times bestselling author also gushed over how Elijah has adapted to her busy—and very public—life.